A Coach’s Secret Weapon: Attentional Posture
An excellent coach is not necessarily exceptionally smart or innovative. What makes coaches uniquely valuable, when compared to normal people, is what we call –
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3 Reminders for When You’re Triggered
Her words hit me like a train. “OH MY GOD! I CAN’T BELIEVE YOU! YOU ARE SO…RUDE, YOU’RE THE RUDEST PERSON I’VE EVER MET!!! HOW
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Discover a transformative learning experience that allows you to deepen your connections and enhance your leadership skills at your own pace. Our self-study Foundations of
How an Emotionally Intelligent Person becomes a High Performer
How does a highly emotional(ly intelligent) person also become a high performer? There is a secret to being an emotional high performer. But it takes
3 Keys to Emotional Expression Work
I’ve been to countless workshops for “emotional expression” where they give you a tennis racket and you’re told to yell and beat the sh!t out
Surrender
Listening for What Wants to Happen Coaching requires a deep and powerful version of surrender. As the coach we don’t make anything happen. We listen
How to Give Appreciations that Land
If an appreciation is off-base, irrelevant or mis-attuned it probably won’t be as potent. To give a powerful appreciation requires seeing something true and specific
3 Types of Boundaries People Don’t Talk About
Boundaries are NOT Walls In this week’s blog we talk about 3 kinds of boundaries that aren’t often talked about: – Responsive Boundaries – Proactive
The 3 Types of Power and why They Matter
Introduction I believe that knowing our power as leaders is CRUCIAL to using our power responsibly. When we choose to be a leader, our words
7 Traits of Great Leaders
Are leaders born or made? Most modern research suggests that great leaders are not simply born that way, rather it’s a far more complex. The
What is Transformational Leadership and Why it Matters
Intro What is transformational leadership? Is it just another buzzword like “Authentic?” Not quite. Transformational leadership is a leadership style where leaders inspire others by
How to Support Someone Who is Overwhelmed
There is a tool that has proven to be even more effective than “is there something you need right now” that I call The Menu