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“What do I do if I find myself projecting onto others when I’m in a leadership position?” If the person really trusts us, and we

Identity is the story we tell ourselves about who we are. This includes what kind of person we are, what qualities we hold, what we

I used to believe that true friendship was about knowing and being known. I thought that meant them knowing my story. So, for many years

“Hands down, this was the worst circle of my life,” she said. Sarah, who had excitedly asked me to lead the circle one hour before,

Today, I’d like to share a little story about the powerful use of Parts Work. ‘Parts’ is a simple idea ⎯ people have parts. When

If you were to Google de-escalation tips, you would get horrible advice. “Stay calm and slowly back away. When someone is angry, they want to feel

The wild thing about labeling people is that while it can be blatant and overt, it can also be subtle. It can slip through in

Boxification is when we claim to have authority on what other people think, feel, or intend. The big problem with Boxification is that other people

Four years ago I had an insight that helped me see and break out of the molds that other people were putting me in, and