About TCI

Our Mission

Our mission is to create a more compassionate and empowered world through training courageous leaders in the arts of effective communication and group facilitation.
At The Connection Institute, we train the leaders of tomorrow to create a more connected and relational world.
When an individual decides to become a group facilitator they are embarking on a path of growth that is unique, and can only be understood by others who have walked that same path. We train leaders who are passionate about helping others and we are committed to serving these brave souls on this journey.
The search for meaning and depth is something that drives all humans, and the more we live into our potential and self-actualize, the more that quest becomes the guide for our whole lives.
Leading groups through navigating emotional topics has never been more relevant in human history.
People are longing for guidance that helps them find belonging and connection in their lives.

Let us guide the way.

Our Team

Peter Benjamin

Co-Founder | Lead Trainer

Peter Will Benjamin is one of the joyful co-founders of The Connection Institute.  As lead staff trainer and Creative Director he delights in caring for the staff and students.  Peter also works as a Professional Coach and teaches continuing ed for Coaches and Therapists. Peter’s mission is to support everyone he knows in feeling worthy of love and goodness, and accessing their personal power.  He’s also an intimacy junkie, community builder, and dancer. 

Jen Burns

Lead Trainer

Jen is a somatic coach, connection facilitator,  and Lead Trainer at the The Connection Institute.
Jen specializes in incorporating nervous system practices that cultivate deeply safe and embodied spaces where others feel safe to dive deep into their emotional worlds.


Mark Boughton


Mark Boughton has been studying communication skills and the psychology of relationships and interpersonal dynamics for over a decade. By the time he was twenty two, he had worked, traveled or volunteered on every continent of the globe, and had discovered a deep passion for understanding people. He stumbled upon the world of therapy and coaching in his early twenties, immediately knew his calling, and has been facilitating relational practice ever since. He has a love for building community and bringing people together to connect, and also works as a coach helping people vision and actualize their deepest desires.

Fei Wyatt

Lead Trainer

On a mission to bring people closer, Fei has dedicated her life and work to learning and teaching about connection. Authenticity, vulnerability, non-judgment, and ownership are some of Fei’s core values that she brings to this practice. Her primary work as a cuddle therapist and intimacy coach has been deeply enriched by circling (and vice versa). Fei brings her appetite for relational exploration to her work with individuals, groups & professionals, helping them deepen their relationship with themselves and others. You’ll find her facilitating connection everywhere she goes, but most particularly in Los Angeles, CA where she is based.

Damian Gallagher

Lead Trainer

Damian Gallagher has a passion for people and exploring what is available in every moment. He loves the simplicity of living a life in connection with self and others. Damian considers one of his greatest relational strengths to be revealing his inner world when he’s feeling awkward or vulnerable (and he feels awkward writing this Bio). He thrives when working with others and enjoys facilitating Circling, AR games and Relational work. Damian also facilitates one on one Personal growth and Transformational work, as well as Men’s work exploring accountability, shadow, and presence. He finds pleasure in movement and embodiment and also delights in finding moments of slowness and stillness. Damian lives in Santa Barbara, CA with his wife and son.

Melody Indigo

Lead Trainer

For the past decade Melody has immersed herself in relational work— after her college education in concert lighting design, she switched careers when she realized that she was more interested in the quality of connection with her colleagues than the music on stage.

At The Integral Center in Boulder, CO, Melody was the youngest senior faculty member ever hired, eventually also taking on the role of Director of Operations. There she facilitated groups of all sizes and trained others as relational facilitators and leaders. She also orchestrated multiple nationwide Authentic Relating tours, and is currently the founder of The Indigo Sanctum, coaching clients all around the world of various backgrounds and interests.

Melody stewards an 8-acre property in rural Oregon and is also a folk herbalist. When not teaching about relationality she can be found outside in nature.

Rachel Rohlman

Lead Trainer

Rachel’s introduction to the world of Authentic Relating and Circling began in 2019. At the time she was simply looking to up-level her leadership capacity, as she was in the throws of founding her third business. Little did she know this work would enthrall and infect her. Rachel has since dedicated her career to leading herself and others into deeper connection. She especially loves inviting risk into the brave spaces she is committed to creating. In her spare time she enjoys nerding out on philosophy and psychology, playing in nature, and loving on her babies (both furred and un-furred).

Cameron Grayson

Lead Trainer

Cameron has a gift and a passion for supporting others in discovering their true nature. With curiosity and compassion she supports an exploration of each individuals world creating a container of transformation into an authentically aligned life. Her extensive ongoing practice of holistic systems has gifted her the tools and experience to connect deeper and hold an immense amount of presence, compassion, and expansive space while providing for others. Some of her own experiences are visually displayed in the artwork she creates depicting some of her deepest transformations through her life journey. Cameron is trained in Authentic Relating, Circling, Internal Family Systems, Yoga, Whole Person Coaching, Integral Breath Therapy, and Conscious Communication. She brings the values of these practices into every class she leads.


Cat Gelinas


Cat Gelinas is a Development Coach, Teacher, and the Co-Founder of the Yugen Institute. She’s a professional nerd of the art & science of being human and teaches people how to create lives they love.

Since 2005, she has trained in consciousness development, shadow work, ancestral healing, relational skills, leadership, and more. She has coached and taught others on their journey to explore what it is to be a human, to expand capacities, & work with their humanity.

Her delight in life is to meet people where they are and, with welcoming and compassionate curiosity, bring to light what people are needing and support them in their evolution towards aliveness.

Indigo Dawn


Indigo Dawn (they/them/elle) is a transformational coach, love activist, and touch therapist who LOVES to catalyze life-changing experiences for others. They are the Program Director for Center for a New Culture; the Founder & Co-Director of the Consent Program for Interfusion Festival; and have organized hundreds of catalytic workshops and multi-day retreats with 10-1500 attendees. As a conference speaker and facilitator, Indigo helps participants build loving relationships with themselves and others– with skills like emotional dexterity, responsive boundaries, and skillful communication. As a personal coach, they support changemakers to transmute the pain of past wounds and find joyous inspiration to create the life– and world– that they most yearn for.

Laura Leigh

Community Manager & Facilitator

Laura fell in love with circling and authentic relating principles and practices as soon as they found her. She has regularly practiced circling since 2020. She finds the practice resourcing, deeply connecting, grounding and opens her heart to deeper self-compassion and compassion for others. She loves learning, growing and supporting our beautiful community as the Community Manager and as a facilitator.

Zoe Benjamin


Zoe is committed to supporting individual transformation through bodywork, nutrition, therapeutic exercise, and self-care. Zoe got an early start in the field at age nine through Jin Shin Jyutsu, an energy healing modality. Through her own journey, Zoe discovered the power of nutritional choices and continues to be motivated with the understanding that what you put in your body has the ability to transform your quality of life. 

Zoe Benjamin received her formal training at the Florida School of Massage and has most recently been studying Muscular Therapy, Orthopedic Massage, and Active Isolated Stretching with Dr. Ben E. Benjamin (who just so happens to be her father).  Zoe welcomes individuals seeking treatment of specific injuries, as well as those focused on relaxation and self-care maintenance.

Sophie Kruip


Sophie Kruip is an enthusiast, project catalyst, and “vision doula.” She studied in Theatre Arts, specifically immersive and site-specific work, and trained in group facilitation under Dr. Hazel-Grace Yates, Sara Ness, and Jason Digges. Authentic Relating, and Circling practices have expanded her capacity to hold more complexity, and brought incredible people into her life. Her dream is to invite more of this aliveness, joy, and honest connection into the mainstream.

Svetlana Lilova


Svetlana Lilova discovered Authentic Relating in late 2016 and soon became awed by its power to cultivate authenticity, freedom, and genuine connection. In 2018 she began to more intentionally pursue AR and circling, and has since facilitated and hosted events with AR Toronto, trained and co-facilitated with ART International (Level 1) and Realness Project, and is currently facilitating on the Connection Institute Platform.

Svetlana is passionate about art and all things human, including fostering, for herself and others, awareness, aliveness, creativity, space of self, an inner life, surrender, and vulnerability – the currency of connection.

Svetlana is also a writer, a Registered Psychotherapist in private practice, and runs private groups in Toronto, Canada.

Emma van den Boogert


Emma is passionate about creating a world that works for all life, where human potential is manifested, and we live in interdependence with each other and the planet. As a coach and trainer, she connects individuals and groups to their innate potential. Starting meditation at 16 due to physical pain, she delved into consciousness practices and traveled to communities. She started teaching courses and specialized in we-space technologies such as Circling, Non-Violent Communication, Shadow and Parts work, body-oriented practices, and more. They all meet her in something that touches her deeply: connecting in trust and presence to what’s unfolding in and between us, while exploring new ways of being and emerging possibilities that are here.

Christine Fransen


Christine Fransen is a Transformational Coach (training in Sophrology and Psych-K) living in the south of France. She is trilingual and she is passionate about the evolution of the human potential in the realm of relationships and the emergence of collective wisdom. She recently went through a conscious uncoupling process that brought her marriage to completion. Today, she dedicates herself to guide others how to move through difficult experiences with grace and dignity, enhance and deepen radical trust in life, and feel more alive.

Ralf Westerhof


Ralf came in contact with Circling and RIA after having immersed for five years in Non-Violent Communication. He is founder of an offline community in Connective Communication located in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. This form combines the explorative nature of the inquiry and the clarity on empathy of NVC. Next to RIA-like Connected Meditations, there are also NVC-based lessons aimed at bringing authenticity and connection to everyday life.

In daily life, Ralf works as a Hypnotherapist. He loves to dance, and used to teach Contact Improvisation. His international career as a light artist and sculptor is now, due to his passion in the Relating field, reduced to one or two projects a year.

Gerd Schoeters


Trained as a scientist and naturally expanding towards a people oriented, creative being with a holistic focus, Gerd engages in an inquiry into healthy balance; balance in his relationships with others and the parts of him self.

In his connections with others he finds aliveness and heartening in the welcoming of “what is” in the moment and the experience of our common humanity.
An open-minded person with a devotion to learning through looking at the world from the perspective of others, an openness to explore every idea or experience and a love for the emerging wonder of interconnectedness.

Daniela Reichert


Daniela brings her openness, vulnerability, love, curiosity, body awareness and welcome into Inquiries and Circles. She loves supporting people to find their power and wisdom within themselves. She and her twin sister Melanie are the founders of Be Authentic, where they combine their work with communication and embodiment. Since 2014, Daniela has led courses, workshops, and organizes festivals in Germany, Europe, and around the world. She loves to dance (Contact Improv) bodywork, massage, and acrobatics, which support and deeply influence her communication work.

Melanie Reichert


Melanie is an enthusiastic communication, movement, and relationship facilitator. She and her twin sister Daniela founded the organization Be Authentic, which combines Authentic Relating, Circling with Embodiment, and Community in Berlin, Germany. Besides communication, she loves working with the body in the form of bodywork, contact improvisation, massage techniques, Acro Yoga and embodiment. She integrates all of this into her work as a leader to find deep and safe ways to fully integrate and embody communication. Since 2014, she has been leading and organizing classes, workshops, and festivals around the world.

Lisette van der Valk


Lisette is an experienced coach and professional believer in people. She aims to bring out the brilliance in other humans so they can enjoy their life fully and fulfilled. She completed her facilitator training with TCI.

When she’s not coaching, consulting or facilitating, you can find Lisette singing in choir, making candles or cuddling with her cat Kuma.

Laura Tatar


Laura is an artist and healer with an educational background in trauma, life coaching, and theatre. She is passionate about creating opportunities for conscious connection, deep inner work and integration, and healing through community.

Laura has always found herself feeling more fulfilled when communicating in open and truthful ways. When she discovered the world of Authentic Relating, she was relieved to find people who crave and practice radical honesty.

Laura’s other loves include acting, singing and playing music, board games, hiking and camping, dancing, and her 2 cats Willow and Pip.

Gabriel DeRita


Gabe is a personal development coach & facilitator helping mission-driven humans live in alignment with their purpose.

He left his tech job to travel the world by bike, and in the process found his calling in coaching.

His approach to personal growth is rooted in neuroscience-based CoActive coaching techniques and Authentic Relating, with a heaping spoonful of Japanese philosophy on top.

Gabe was born in Philadelphia and currently lives in Ft. Collins, Colorado. He’s passionate about cycling, foraging wild mushrooms, social/climate justice, and the transformative power of psychedelics. You can learn more about Gabe’s work, his story, and connect with him at www.effectiveconnetion.com.

David Demets


David’s motto is “stay curious”.

He’s passionate about making music, automagic dance, writing and being human.

After practicing and teaching meditation since 2005, his approach changed significantly in 2019 when he dove into emotion processing and circling.

He believes life is all about expanding love, for self and others.

David lives in Belgium and is married to his high school sweetheart. Together they have two daughters, who are natural born Zen masters.

Jorge Moreira


Jorge Moreira has been immersed in relational practices since 2017 when he joined Authentic Relating Toronto and subsequently studied Circling Facilitation, Master Circle (Surrendered Leadership), and T-Group Facilitation. He enjoys creating and leading workshops designed to cultivate self-awareness and lead to authenticity and genuine connection.

Khemā Eernisse


Khemā recently left behind her life at a Buddhist monastic center in rural Vermont, where she trained for three years. She’s now following a call to be of service in the world through offering circling, grief ritual, coaching, and energy work. She’s been teaching, facilitating, and playing in the realm of circling for the last six years. She’s pretty sure circling can change the world and has personally found profound healing, growth, and aliveness through the practice. Right now, her passion is exploring the intersection between embodiment, Buddhism, and surrendered leadership.

Abby Rogers


Abby is a plant lover, a cuddle enthusiast, and a connection connoisseur.

She came out of the womb as a truth seeker. Never satisfied with a simple answer, she always wanted to know what was deeper – underneath the surface.

She spent 20 years of her life actively in search of truth in meaning. This led her into a deep dive into Buddhism, meditation and mindfulness.

This year, Abby experienced life changing grief for the first time. In the process of opening to the sea of this emotion, the wisdom of grief told her that it needed to be seen and held in community. And the circling community felt like the safest space to begin that journey.

Abby is overjoyed to bring grief awareness to the world. She lives in upstate New York. She leads circling and authentic relating locally and is a boundaries coach.

“The wound is the place where the light enters you”. – Rumi

Zachary Cohen


Zachary is a dad, musician, facilitator, and lover of connection. He was introduced to circling in 2020 and became captivated by the practice. Zachary values spaciousness, presence, and growth. He is inspired to create healthy, connective ways to explore differences. In addition to facilitating for TCI, Zachary leads a growing circling community in northern Vermont, where he has the blessing of living close to the Earth.

Mahaya Alina Sikorsky


Mahaya is passionate about authentic connection, loving presence and listening to deep wisdom within. Her own experience of moving through 20 years of chronic illness led her to deep dive into the world of mindfulness, yoga, breathwork, plant medicine work, psychosomatic therapy and trauma work, and to discovering her own gifts of an intuitive, a space holder and a healer.

Currently, in addition to holding spaces for authentic connection and group processing, she offers psychosomatic therapy and coaching sessions to anyone who feels ready to meet themself in a deeper, more compassionate way and heal and transform their life in a way that is real and meaningful.



James is a multidisciplinarian, healer and lifelong learner. His current work revolves around integrative practices (coaching, psychedelic medicine, meditation, massage therapy, dance, and movement) that welcome the whole of human experience. He believes that the more we allow and accept what is, the more we get to come into alignment and work with the world, rather than against it.
His background includes being certified in Group Coaching by The Connection Institute and a Certified Circling Facilitator. He received his undergraduate studies in Environmental Science and Native American Studies, Permaculture Design Certification, Yoga Teacher Certification, Medical Research of Tai Chi for Parkinsons, Transportation Research and Consulting, Data Analytics, and Software Development.

Dina Curran


Dina is a Life Coach with a passion for exploring the inner worlds of our existence and the way we interact with each other.

She was introduced to Circling and Authentic Relating in 2020. Falling in love with the practice and the community, she decided to pursue more training to learn how to facilitate group practices.

Dina’s passion includes traveling the world and exploring nature and different cultures. She lives in Canada, with her husband and children

Alan Cooney

mediSAYtion Facilitator

Alan LOVES growing himself and helping others do the same. He gained a level of mastery with science and technology from an honors degree in engineering and 40+ years at tech companies like Ekso Bionics and Apple … and combined that with 25+ years of deep personal growth work.

He’s a former corporate executive, Landmark Education coach, trained mentor, Circling facilitator, men’s group facilitator, and psychedelic sitter. Since leaving Silicon Valley tech, he has created unique, highly effective, scientifically sound processes for shifting limiting beliefs to get you to the REAL you. The TRUE you.

Alan also founded mediSAYtion to share a new and EXTREMELY powerful and EASY mindfulness practice with the world.

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